How is a cold person
How to Act Cold
how to act cold are you tired of being
so nice all the time there is a certain
power in being mysteriously cold instead
of sweet and inviting acting cold can
cause people to take you more seriously
at school or make you seem more
professional at work try not to take it
too far though you don't want to
completely ice people out if you want to
know how to turn your personality from
warm to chilly
keep reading having a cold demeanor 1
don't smile often having a smile on your
face looks inviting and warm drawing
people to you
more difficult to read someone's
has a serious expression if you want to
be cold you should smile very rarely you
want people to look at you and wonder
what you're thinking be generally
expressionless and hard to read when you
do smile keep it contained don't break
into a wide open brain keep your smile
small and mysterious flash it every once
in a while to keep people guessing
what's going on in that head of yours
straight men might benefit
studies show that slang
less attractive to women
or the icy glare
look them straight in the eye and
crinkle your brow as if you are can
and perturbed by their behavior purse
your lips ever so slightly to show
you're cool disdain
don't let yourself look outright angry
or
you want your expression to stay
controlled distant and cold as ice 3 use
cool body language mastering the art of
body language
key when it comes to being cold
maintain an
of mystery and control by avoiding
speaking when you can use a more subtle
technique to communicate
have excellent posture stand up
straighter than those around you
don't be fidgety with your hands and
feet
when someone says something that annoys
you be expressionless and turned
slightly away stop making eye contact
shake hands lightly instead of hugging
stiffen slightly when someone touches
you for speak in an even tone when you
do speak don't let your voice rise and
fall dramatically keep it cool
come even tone even if you're feeling
wildly happy or angry inside don't lose
yourself in laughter or tears keep it
together and try not to convey too much
emotion be aloof and detached whenever
you're talking to someone five don't
talk about yourself keep some distance
from the
you by not saying too much about your
thoughts feelings habits and personal
life
people who are cold don't tend to share
in this way say only would you
and avoid telling stories or jokes that
might reveal too much 6 don't ask a lot
of questions
that you care about them and if your
goal is to be
you can exchange a few polite
pleasantries but avoid expressing too
much interest
you're preoccupied with your own
brilliant thoughts and ideas
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if someone does not hear you the first
time it's their own fault
you shouldn't have to repeat anything to
anyone
having a cold attitude
be willing to hurt someone's feeling
ask people questions or express any
positive
people's feelings
guaranteed to get hurt
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resist the urge to apologize or comfort
people when you real
if someone come
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you're not sure what they're talking
about
if someone expresses sadness or anger
then turn around and go about your day
using this non-apology is sure to show
the other person that you are quite cold
B we're giving too many people the cold
shoulder studies show that people who
ostracize others may feel as sad as the
person being ostracized to be fiercely
competitive work hard to be the best at
everything you do even if it means you
aren't demonstrating good teamwork
skills be ready with the smartest
quickest answers in your classes be
relentless on the playing field during
soccer practice excel at your job even
if others might look less capable as a
consequence
three be extremely practical and real
when other people are excited about a
big tournament coming up mention it's
just a game and
waste of people's time don't express
excitement over holidays in birthdays
for
father helping
so the lady down the street drops all
her groceries cross the street and look
away or walk right by her if the first
thing you think when someone asks you
don't second-guess yourself and don't
let build affect your behavior
whole person and
compassion Archer for tank
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for cold people
have empty
imagine you are walking
sidewalk when a car rushes by and sprays
dirty rainwater on
what do you say
my favorite shirt or Lyman
the correct answer as see Blair
murderously and say I hope you crash and
die be critical of those around you
don't give out compliments
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- if you like what they're wearing
eyes and change the subject
be careful who you trust behaving coldly
toward people is going to make you some
enemies as a consequence there will be
very few people you can trust
the
trust will be those who understand that
you're not cold at heart knowing when to
be cold one be cold in public it's
usually pretty safe to be cold in a
public setting you might cause a few
strangers to feel miffed but that can be
a good thing especially if the strangers
were trying to hit on you or get
something from you being cold and public
probably won't hurt your reputation or
cause any long-term harm that said if
you see someone in need of real help
lose your cold demeanor and lend a hand
think about what you'd want someone to
do for you in the same situation to be
cold when it helps you excel there are
times when being cold can help you win
an argument close a business deal or
score the winning point
with having a tough cold attitude when
it comes to getting ahead unless you're
taking it so far that you do real damage
to another person it's important to
think through the consequences of your
attitude and actions 3 don't be cold to
your family and friends the people who
take care of
to family and friends will
you feel isolated
after years of being treated coldly it's
likely that no
parents will still like to give you the
time of day
beware getting a reputation for being
can have its benefits but in the end
those who are generous warm and charming
attract the most friends
having good friends leads to lifelong
happy
want to consider cultivating the
traits once you've experienced what it's
like to be cold
don't flash your icy side when the
situation calls for it
